Thursday, 12 December 2013

Best Ways to Think Out of the Box



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Thinking outside the box is more than just a business cliché. It means approaching problems in new, innovative ways; conceptualizing 

problems differently; and understanding your position in relation to any particular situation in a way you’d never thought of before. 

Ironically, its a cliché that means to think of clichéd situations in ways that aren’t clichéd.

We’re told to “think outside the box” all the time, but how exactly do we do that? How do we develop the ability to confront problems in ways 

other than the ways we normally confront problems? How do we cultivate the ability to look at things differently from the way we typically 

look at things?

Thinking outside the box starts well before we’re “boxed in” – that is, well before we confront a unique situation and start forcing it into a 

familiar “box” that we already know how to deal with. Or at least think we know how to deal with.

Here are 11 ways to beef up your out-of-the-box thinking skills. Make an effort to push your thinking up to and beyond its limit every now 

and again – the talents you develop may come in handy the next time you face a situation that “everybody knows” how to solve.



 regardless of what they believe, you start to see 

the limitations of whatever dogma or doxy you follow, a revelation that will transfer quite a bit into the non-religious parts of your life.






3. Take a class.

Learning a new topic will not only teach you a new set of facts and figures, it will teach you a new way of looking at and making sense of 

aspects of your everyday life or of the society or natural world you live in. This in turn will help expand both how you look at problems and 

the breadth of possible solutions you can come up with.

4. Read a novel in an unfamiliar genre.

Reading is one of the great mental stimulators in our society, but it’s easy to get into a rut. Try reading something you’d never have touched 

otherwise – if you read literary fiction, try a mystery or science fiction novel; if you read a lot of hard-boiled detective novels, try a romance; 

and so on. Pay attention not only to the story but to the particular problems the author has to deal with. For instance, how does the fantasy 

author bypass your normal skepticism about magic and pull you into their story? Try to connect those problems to problems you face in 

your own field. For example, how might your marketing team overcome your audiences normal reticence about a new “miracle” product?

5. Write a poem.

While most problem-solving leans heavily on our brain’s logical centers, poetry neatly bridges our more rational left-brain though processes 

and our more creative right-brain processes. Though it may feel foolish (and getting comfortable with feeling foolish might be another way to 

think outside the box), try writing a poem about the problem you’re working on. Your poem doesn’t necessarily have to propose a solution – 

the idea is to shift your thinking away from your brain’s logic centers and into a more creative part of the brain, where it can be mulled over 

in a non-rational way. Remember, nobody has to ever see your poem…





1. Study another industry.

I’ve learned as much about teaching from learning about marketing as I have from studying pedagogy – maybe more. Go to the library and 

pick up a trade magazine in an industry other than your own, or grab a few books from the library, and learn about how things are done in 

other industries. You might find that many of the problems people in other industries face are similar to the problems in your own, but that 

they’ve developed really quite different ways of dealing with them. Or you might well find new linkages between your own industry and the 

new one, linkages that might well be the basis of innovative partnerships in the future.

2. Learn about another religion.

Religions are the way that humans organize and understand their relationships not only with the supernatural or divine but with each other. 

Learning about how such relations are structured can teach you a lot about how people relate to each other and the world around them. 

Starting to see the reason in another religion can also help you develop mental flexibility – when you really look at all the different ways 

people comprehend the same mysteries, and the fact that they generally manage to survive

6. Draw a picture.

Drawing a picture is even more right-brained, and can help break your logical left-brain’s hold on a problem the same way a poem can. Also, 

visualizing a problem engages other modes of thinking that we don’t normally use, bringing you another creative boost.

7. Turn it upside down.

Turning something upside-down, whether physically by flipping a piece of paper around or metaphorically by re-imagining it can help you see 

patterns that wouldn’t otherwise be apparent. The brain has a bunch of pattern-making habits that often obscure other, more subtle patterns 

at work; changing the orientation of things can hide the more obvious patterns and make other patterns emerge. For example, you might ask 

what a problem would look like if the least important outcome were the most important, and how you’d then try to solve it.

8. Work backwards.

Just like turning a thing upside down, working backwards breaks the brain’s normal conception of causality. This is the key to backwards 

planning, for example, where you start with a goal and think back through the steps needed to reach it until you get to where you are right 

now.

9. Ask a child for advice.

I don’t buy into the notion that children are inherently ore creative before society “ruins” them, but I do know that children think and speak 

with a n ignorance of convention that is often helpful. Ask a child how they might tackle a problem, or if you don’t have a child around think 

about how you might reformulate a problem so that a child could understand it if one was available. Don’t run out and build a boat made out 

of cookies because a child told you to, though – the idea isn’t to do what the child says, necessarily, but to jog your own thinking into a 

more unconventional path.

10. Invite randomness.

If you’ve ever seen video of Jackson Pollock painting, you have seen a masterful painter consciously inviting randomness into his work. 

Pollock exercises a great deal of control over his brushes and paddles, in the service of capturing the stray drips and splashes of paint that 

make up his work. Embracing mistakes and incorporating them into your projects, developing strategies that allow for random input, 

working amid chaotic juxtapositions of sound and form – all of these can help to move beyond everyday patterns of thinking into the 

sublime.

11. Take a shower.

There’s some kind of weird psychic link between showering and creativity. Who knows why? Maybe it’s because your mind is on other things, 

maybe it’s because you’re naked, maybe it’s the warm water relaxing you – it’s a mystery. But a lot of people swear by it. So maybe when the 

status quo response to some circumstance just isn’t working, try taking a shower and see if something remarkable doesn’t occur to you!


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Wednesday, 11 December 2013

Inspirational Story





IT IS THE LITTLE THINGS THAT MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE -

There was a man taking a morning wa lk at or the beach. He saw that along with the morning tide came hundreds of starfish and when the tide receded, they were left behind and with the morning sun rays, they would die. The tide was fresh and the starfish were alive. The man took a few steps, picked one and threw it into the water. He did that repeatedly. Right behind him there was another person who couldn't understand what this man was doing. He caught up with him and asked, "What are you doing? There are hundreds of starfish. How many can you help? What difference does it make?" This man did not reply, took two more steps, picked up another one, threw it into the water, and said, "It makes a difference to this one."

Moral : What difference are we making? Big or small, it does not matter. If everyone made a small difference, we'd end up with a big difference, wouldn't we?


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How to Think Positively


 
What does it mean to think positively?
Quite often when we're going through a challenging time, or we're just plain miserable, we invariably get the advice to just "think positivelythink positively!"  

Sometimes it's difficult to figure out exactly what that means. 

Does it mean to deny our pain or discomfort?

Should we pretend everything is alright?

Perhaps, at times, we would prefer to wallow. Surely there must be some merit in wallowing. Indeed there may be, (time heals most wounds) however, at some point we have to pick ourselves up and move on.

In order to do so, we must change our mindset or attitude from a non-productive one, into one that is positive and progressive. Of course, we can't be in denial or adopt a Pollyannaish, rose-colored glasses way of looking at the world. 

Negative feelings and circumstances do exist and often serve as an indication that something is not working or needs to be attended to. In such cases we must employ positive thinking and use it as a strategy for interpreting everything that happens to us in a useful, constructive way in order to make our lives work. Of course, it doesn't mean denying pain and discomfort. It means making sense of them and using what we can to strengthen our resolve and build resilience muscle. 





Tips on Developing a Positive Thinking Mindset

Accept that you are here to grow and evolve. Life doesn't always go smoothly. Not everything is meant to be a joyride or exercise in pleasure. Life's lessons can be difficult, but are more so if you approach them with avoidance and apprehension. If you see them as opportunities to become stronger, wiser and more resilient, you are thinking positively and productively.

 

Learn to turn lemons into lemonade. Look for the lessons to be learned in every situation. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself when things don't go your way, do what you can to make the best of it. You can learn to avoid falling in the same traps, making the same mistakes and by doing so, be the better for it. 

 "A man's errors are his portals of discovery."

 





Believe in yourself. Know that you have what it takes to succeed. Your dreams and goals are an indication where your talents lie and where your true potential is. Needless to say, you must develop your inherent gifts; however, recognize that you have a unique contribution to make. You're one of a kind.

 

Acquire perseverance. When you possess a positive thinking mindset you never give up. You pursue your dreams, your goals and objectives with everything you've got and you don't settle for anything less. That's not to say you won't have roadblocks and various setbacks along the way. It just means that you won't let them stop you! 


 
"Our   Greatest Glory is not in never Failing,  but in Rising up every Time we fail." 

 

Look for inspiration and support. Read about and study the triumphs of others. Many successful people have gone through challenging circumstances to get where they are. Learning about their trials and tribulations can motivate and inspire you to achieve what you desire to achieve. To help you stay positive and focused, garner support from family and friends. 

"Most of us, swimming against the tides of trouble the world knows nothing about, need only a bit of praise or encouragement - and we will make the goal."  

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Tuesday, 10 December 2013

Positive Thoughts for Life


You have probably heard a thing or two about the benefits of positive thinking. Positive thinkers have better stress coping skills, stronger immunity, and a lower risk of cardiovascular disease. While it is not a health panacea, taking an optimistic view rather than ruminating on negative thoughts can benefit your overall mental well-being.

So what can you do to become a more positive thinker? A few common strategies involve learning how to identify negative thoughts and replacing these thoughts with more positive ones. While it might take some time, eventually you may find that thinking positively starts to come more naturally. Consider putting some of the following tips into practice.

Avoid Negative Self-Talk

Self-talk involves the things you mentally tell yourself. Think of this as the inner voice inside your mind that analyzes how you perform and interact in the world around you. If your self-talk centers on negative thoughts, your self-esteem can suffer. When you start thinking critical thoughts about yourself, take a moment to pause and assess.

Elizabeth Scott, About.com's Guide to Stress Management, has some great tips for how to turn negative self-talk into positive self-talk. She advises readers to start by noticing their thought patterns and then focus on changing these into more positive ones. When you catch yourself engaging in a negative thought, mentally telling yourself to "Stop" can help break the pattern.

Try Humor

It can be really difficult to stay positive when there is little humor or lightness in your life. Even when you are facing challenges, it is important to stay open to laughter and humor. Sometimes, simply recognizing the potential humor in a situation can lessen your stress and brighten your outlook. Seeking out sources of humor such as watching a funny sitcom or reading jokes online can help you think more positive thoughts.

Cultivate Optimism




Learning to think positive is like strengthening a muscle; the more you use it the stronger it will become. Researchers believe that your explanatory style, or how you explain events, is linked to whether you are an optimist or a pessimist. Optimists tend to have a positive explanatory style. If you attribute good things that happen to your own skill and effort, then you are probably an optimist. Pessimists, on the other hand, usually have a negative attributional style. If you credit these good events to outside forces, then you likely have a more pessimistic way of thinking.




The same principles hold true for how you explain negative events. Optimists tend to view bad or unfortunate events as isolated incidences that are outside of their control, while pessimists view such things as more common and often blame themselves. By taking a moment to analyze the event and ensure that you are giving yourself the credit you are due for the good things and not blaming yourself for things outside of your control, you can start to become more optimistic.





Keeping Working On It

There is not on-off switch for positive thinking. Even if you are a natural-born optimist, positive thinking can take effort in the face of challenging situations. Like any goal, the key is to stick with it for the long-term. Even if you find yourself dwelling on negative thoughts, you can look for ways to minimize negative self-talk and cultivate a more optimistic outlook.

Finally, do not be afraid to enlist the help of friends and family. When you start engaging in negative thinking, call a friend or family member who you can count on to offer positive encouragement and feedback. Remember that in order to think positively, you need to nurture yourself. Investing energy into things you enjoy and surrounding yourself with optimistic people are just two ways that you can encourage positive thinking in your life.


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Monday, 9 December 2013

7 Reasons Why You’re Not A Millionaire




If you’re not a millionaire, don’t give up hope that you will become one someday. Take note of the reasons you aren’t a millionaire and resolve to make changes that will make a million dollars obtainable, even for the average person.

1. You’re Not Your Own Boss
Although there’s no guarantee that self-employment will earn you a million dollars, it’s really unlikely that working for someone else will get you there either. There are very few jobs that pay million dollar salaries.

Don’t quit your day job tomorrow to launch a business, however. Instead, consider keeping your day job while you start a business on the side. You’ll have the security of your current salary along with an opportunity to create a business where you can earn extra cash.


2. You Avoid Taking Risks
People don’t become millionaires without taking any risks. Taking a risk doesn’t mean you need to invest all your money into a single investment or that you need to gamble earnings foolishly.





However, taking calculated risks is often part of good money management. No one gets rich on the interest they earn from the bank. Instead, millionaires know how to invest their money wisely.




3. You Never Act on Your Good Ideas
It’s one thing to come up with million dollar ideas, but a completely different thing to act on them. If you are more a dreamer who never puts his money where his mouth is, you’ll never get rich. Millionaires don’t sit around and watch others advance in life. They take action to help them reach their goals.



4. You Don’t Manage Your Money Wisely
The average person has the potential to become a millionaire in today’s world. Sound investments, a solid budget, and clear goals can mean that a person who earns an average salary can become a millionaire by retirement.

If you don’t manage your money wisely now, however, it’s unlikely that you’ll be able to handle a million dollars with good sense. Establish a budget and create goals for yourself to help you save money now.

5. You Don’t Set Clear Goals for Yourself
People who don’t have clear goals aren’t going to make smart money decisions. You need goals to help you save money and invest wisely.

Create goals, such as getting out of debt or saving up for a vacation home. Creating goals will help you determine whether or not you should spend your money on other things that come up in the meantime. If you’re saving with a specific goal in mind, it’s much easier to say no to tempting opportunities to spend money.

6. You Don’t Put in Enough Time, Effort, and Energy
No one makes a million dollars by watching TV or sleeping 12 hours a night. Unless you’re lucky enough to win the lottery or inherit a windfall, becoming a millionaire takes hard work.

Millionaires consider the time and energy they put into a project to be an investment. They understand they won’t get immediate results but are willing to put in the hard work it takes to see the fruits of their labor. Learn how to manage your time wisely so you can become more productive with your efforts.

7.  You Aren’t Networking with the Right People
You won’t become successful in life if you spend time with lazy people who aren’t interested in managing their money wisely. However, if you surround yourself with energetic, successful people, it will rub off on you.

Develop relationships with successful people in your community. Look for people who can mentor you in your efforts to manage your finances, invest wisely, or build a business. Spending time with others who share your goals can help fuel your passion and efforts to become a successful millionaire.



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Ways to Think Outside the Box




Thinking outside the box is more than just a business cliché. It means approaching 

problems in new, innovative ways; conceptualizing problems differently; and 

understanding your position in relation to any particular situation in a way you’d 

never thought of before. Ironically, its a cliché that means to think of clichéd 

situations in ways that aren’t clichéd.

We’re told to “think outside the box” all the time, but how exactly do we do that? 

How do we develop the ability to confront problems in ways other than the ways we 

normally confront problems? How do we cultivate the ability to look at things 

differently from the way we typically look at things?

Thinking outside the box starts well before we’re “boxed in” – that is, well 

before we confront a unique situation and start forcing it into a familiar “box” 

that we already know how to deal with. Or at least think we know how to deal with.

Here are 11 ways to beef up your out-of-the-box thinking skills. Make an effort to 

push your thinking up to and beyond its limit every now and again – the talents 

you develop may come in handy the next time you face a situation that “everybody 

knows” how to solve.





1. Study another industry.
I’ve learned as much about teaching from learning about marketing as I have from 

studying pedagogy – maybe more. Go to the library and pick up a trade magazine in 

an industry other than your own, or grab a few books from the library, and learn 

about how things are done in other industries. You might find that many of the 

problems people in other industries face are similar to the problems in your own, 

but that they’ve developed really quite different ways of dealing with them. Or 

you might well find new linkages between your own industry and the new one, 

linkages that might well be the basis of innovative partnerships in the future.



2. Learn about another religion.
Religions are the way that humans organize and understand their relationships not 

only with the supernatural or divine but with each other. Learning about how such 

relations are structured can teach you a lot about how people relate to each other 

and the world around them. Starting to see the reason in another religion can also 

help you develop mental flexibility – when you really look at all the different 

ways people comprehend the same mysteries, and the fact that they generally manage 

to survive regardless of what they believe, you start to see the limitations of 

whatever dogma or doxy you follow, a revelation that will transfer quite a bit 

into the non-religious parts of your life.

3. Take a class.
Learning a new topic will not only teach you a new set of facts and figures, it 

will teach you a new way of looking at and making sense of aspects of your 

everyday life or of the society or natural world you live in. This in turn will 

help expand both how you look at problems and the breadth of possible solutions 

you can come up with.




4. Read a novel in an unfamiliar genre.
Reading is one of the great mental stimulators in our society, but it’s easy to 

get into a rut. Try reading something you’d never have touched otherwise – if you 

read literary fiction, try a mystery or science fiction novel; if you read a lot 

of hard-boiled detective novels, try a romance; and so on. Pay attention not only 

to the story but to the particular problems the author has to deal with. For 

instance, how does the fantasy author bypass your normal skepticism about magic 

and pull you into their story? Try to connect those problems to problems you face 

in your own field. For example, how might your marketing team overcome your 


audiences normal reticence about a new “miracle” product?


5. Write a poem.
While most problem-solving leans heavily on our brain’s logical centers, poetry 

neatly bridges our more rational left-brain though processes and our more creative 

right-brain processes. Though it may feel foolish (and getting comfortable with 

feeling foolish might be another way to think outside the box), try writing a poem 

about the problem you’re working on. Your poem doesn’t necessarily have to propose 

a solution – the idea is to shift your thinking away from your brain’s logic 

centers and into a more creative part of the brain, where it can be mulled over in 

a non-rational way. Remember, nobody has to ever see your poem…

6. Draw a picture.
Drawing a picture is even more right-brained, and can help break your logical 

left-brain’s hold on a problem the same way a poem can. Also, visualizing a 

problem engages other modes of thinking that we don’t normally use, bringing you 

another creative boost.

7. Turn it upside down.
Turning something upside-down, whether physically by flipping a piece of paper 

around or metaphorically by re-imagining it can help you see patterns that 

wouldn’t otherwise be apparent. The brain has a bunch of pattern-making habits 

that often obscure other, more subtle patterns at work; changing the orientation 

of things can hide the more obvious patterns and make other patterns emerge. For 

example, you might ask what a problem would look like if the least important 

outcome were the most important, and how you’d then try to solve it.

8. Work backwards.
Just like turning a thing upside down, working backwards breaks the brain’s normal 

conception of causality. This is the key to backwards planning, for example, where 

you start with a goal and think back through the steps needed to reach it until 

you get to where you are right now.

9. Ask a child for advice.
I don’t buy into the notion that children are inherently ore creative before 

society “ruins” them, but I do know that children think and speak with a n 

ignorance of convention that is often helpful. Ask a child how they might tackle a 

problem, or if you don’t have a child around think about how you might reformulate 

a problem so that a child could understand it if one was available. Don’t run out 

and build a boat made out of cookies because a child told you to, though – the 

idea isn’t to do what the child says, necessarily, but to jog your own thinking 

into a more unconventional path.

10. Invite randomness.
If you’ve ever seen video of Jackson Pollock painting, you have seen a masterful 

painter consciously inviting randomness into his work. Pollock exercises a great 

deal of control over his brushes and paddles, in the service of capturing the 

stray drips and splashes of paint that make up his work. Embracing mistakes and 

incorporating them into your projects, developing strategies that allow for random 

input, working amid chaotic juxtapositions of sound and form – all of these can 

help to move beyond everyday patterns of thinking into the sublime.

11. Take a shower.
There’s some kind of weird psychic link between showering and creativity. Who 

knows why? Maybe it’s because your mind is on other things, maybe it’s because 

you’re naked, maybe it’s the warm water relaxing you – it’s a mystery. But a lot 

of people swear by it. So maybe when the status quo response to some circumstance 

just isn’t working, try taking a shower and see if something remarkable doesn’t 

occur to you!

Do you have strategies for thinking differently? Share your tips with us in the comments.



Monday, 2 December 2013

Positive Thinking Is A Mental Attitude



Positive Thinking Is A Mental Attitude

Positive thinking is a mental attitude that admits into the mind thoughts, words and images that are conductive to growth, expansion and success. It is a mental attitude that expects good and favorable results. A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action. Whatever the mind expects, it finds.

Many have heard it said that another person cannot make you happy. The happiness will come from within you. Being confident is a choice and it will produce positive emotions. There has been much research done on being in a positive state. It will produce a sense of well-being and has even proven to have multiple health benefits. Successful living today being positive will change your life. Attract Everything You Want Into Your Life.

Be Positive. If you’re negative about what you’re trying to attract, the Universe will interpret your negativity as not wanting. Negative energy can sometimes hide in your consciousness and evade the obvious movements of your rational mind. That’s because the blocks to your positivity are often non-rational. Sometimes these negative beliefs just need you to acknowledge them, and then they can move on their way.




The way that someone feels about themselves shows in the way they act. They always find funny things in everyday life that makes them and others happy. There is joy and cheerfulness that just rubs off on the people who are around them. The way they feel shows in their life because they are more relaxed and sleep better at night. They are not only physically assured but mentally as well. Most people have a spiritual connection that gives them the confident mindset in life.



People who have a confident mindset take full advantage of their work force. They go in everyday with a smile on their face and the confidence that they have the ability to handle anything that comes their way. Their ability to take responsibility and not to blame others when something goes wrong shows that they have a handle on life. Negative emotions have no place with them on their way to success.

Confidence is so much better than looking back and thinking of what could have been. Confident people are ones that you want to be around because they make the most of the present and look forward to the future. They are in awe of the beauty of nature and good things around them.

This behavior comes from choosing the atmosphere that one is around. It is best to surround yourself with assured people that are upbeat and thinking good thoughts. Try to avoid negative news and thinking on unpleasant things. This will be to your advantage in building the blocks in your life of thinking of good wholesome thoughts.  


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